All of our episode topic this week is advisable gender very we are speaing frankly about… best gender we’ve had! We are accompanied by Autostraddle copywriter, poet, and journalist Dani Janae as we get into some steamy stories with an in-depth discussion regarding what can make good intercourse effective. Therefore spend a lot of the time to my intimate hang ups that I may or may not have really done a lot of work with come early july!

Appear the lesbian movie-themed game, remain for any coming.

SHOW NOTES

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The 200 Most Useful Lesbian+ Videos list
that Christina pulled the overall game from.

+ when you yourself haven’t study Dani’s
Structure of a Mango
series you actually must.

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This is basically the article
I typed regarding individual I explore regarding occurrence. It really is just already been two years but so much changed!

+ summer time has passed and in addition we however stan Olivia Rodrigo. See the
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Dani:

The pet together with dog happened to be for the place there ended up being cat-and-dog locks every-where. And therefore, I happened to be certainly having an allergic impulse although we had been having sex. However the climax had been like cook’s hug. It absolutely was the most wonderful, great knowledge actually.

Christina:

We ask yourself whether it’s some thing about the hives that really added a little

je ne sais quoi

to that particular orgasmic experience.

Theme song plays

Drew:

This is

Wait, Is This a night out together?

Christina:


Hold off, So Is This a Date?

is actually an Autostraddle podcast all about, you guessed it, internet dating.

Drew:

Yay! I Like matchmaking. I Am Drew Gregory. I am a writer for Autostraddle, and a filmmaker, and merely basic trans gay individual across the internet and… I became going to say globe, but it is actually a lot more like Los Angeles and ny.

Christina:

I love this globe-trotting homosexual individuality you are taking on the following in 2021.

Drew:

I want that. Yeah, it’s money for hard times.

Christina:

Yeah. Im your own some other variety, Christina Tucker, in addition a writer for Autostraddle, deranged loud gay on the internet. Only style of out right here, writing, getting homosexual, performing whatever you can every minute to try to function with this existence we’re residing.

Drew:

You are really doing it. You are actually operating throughout that existence.

Christina:

Honestly, it’s all I can carry out. That’s all You will find, it is the only choice.

Drew:

I must say I admire the effort.

Christina:

The make an effort to live?

Drew:

Yeah.

Christina:

Yeah. Actually, actually brave of me to even attempt it. You’re not wrong, you’re not completely wrong. Do you really want to consider playing a tiny bit video game these days, Drew?

Drew:

Oh my Jesus, I’m so thrilled. Cannot delay to see what you have actually for me.

Christina:

I am so pleased you mentioned that because you completely need certainly to say yes, because that’s element of this price that people’ve developed here. So you may know about the fact that on autostraddle.com, the website, we’ve got a list of 200 lesbian films.

Drew:

I know of it. I could wrote it.

Christina:

You have. The thing I did is actually take an array of 10 of those films. I have held these to the top 50. I’m going to supply you with the plot keyword phrases as determined by users on IMDb and you’re planning have to do you know what movie really.

Drew:

Okay. I simply wish the audience, anywhere you may be, to understand that I am not planning to pull-up the list. I believe yes it’s true, am I making the assumption that’s correct in the way I should always be respecting the game?

Christina:

I think which is extremely respectful and that I believe’s fair. I also method of depend on this particular is certian end up being something that pops into the mind quite easy for you, I didn’t go as well kept.

Drew:

I’ve a terrible memory, but yes, I’m going to try to set folks up for low expectations.

Christina:

Reasonable enough.

Drew:

So if I do effectively, it is similar style of blow all of them away, and in case I don’t excel, they’ll be similar, „Well, she mentioned…” Anyways, carry on. Why don’t we start this.

Christina:

Let’s beginning. I shall start out with pretty common people and that I are certain to get a lot more specific as we get, because several are actually what the film is during two words. Therefore weare going to try to focus on a wider knowledge right here.

Drew:

I like it.

Christina:

All of our first movie: medications is the very first story phrase. New york, new york is the next. Hate crime is the next.

Drew:

Okay.

It’s Around Myself.

Christina:

Yes, truly! See, I understood you will be capable of this.

Drew:

Great.

Christina:

I absolutely understood you would certainly be able to perform this.

Drew:

Additionally, I just need certainly to allow folks know that that’s just about the most underrated lesbian films, therefore really need to notice it. And Leisha Hailey because film has been my phone history for a couple of years. Thus merely an enjoyable little reality there for every of you.

Christina:

We love that. Okay, flick number 2. „unfamiliar grandfather,” organ donor, cemetery, death of son. Oh, she actually is considering.

Drew:

Personally I think like I should certainly get this considering — wait, unknown daddy, death of boy, body organ donor. Oh,

All About My Mommy.

Christina:

Truth be told there it really is, see.

Drew:

Someone else of my preferences.

Christina:

It is extremely thrilling observe what individuals determine tend to be a land search term that they must move from the films. I’m additionally maybe not checking out some of the people that are merely lesbian because that appears similar to a gimme.

Drew:

That’s how I put together most of the record because if you appear up lesbian motion pictures, everything you found had been the outdated Autostraddle number or some lists that aren’t really thorough, and so I would in fact scroll through lists of this keyword phrases of lesbian, lesbian making out, this stuff like ladies kissing, these things, and discover motion pictures where they truly are not thought of as a lesbian movie because they’re more interesting, or a little bit much less drive, and that is how I found a few of the movies being now regarding the list, therefore back to where it started.

Christina:

Pay attention, IMDb key words arriving handy for everyone continuously. This, individuals went crazy on this one. Therefore only going to review some haphazard terms to you. Hey, whistling, lady, black recreations bra, lake, stomping out a cigarette, working crash.

Drew:

On the job crash? Oh, I thought I Got it following, well—

Christina:

Icy, in parentheses, the heat.

Drew:

Because initially I found myself going to say

Foxfire,

however the working accident changed myself up. At work collision.

Christina:

Would you like even more?

Drew:

Yeah.

Christina:

Vehicle crashes through a fence.

Drew:

Can it be

Miseducation of Cameron Post?

Christina:

It isn’t.

Drew:

Because on the job accident might possibly be a very awful means of describing any particular one associated with the homosexual because you’re trying to convert to not gayness, attempts to mutilate themselves or really does mutilate by themselves. That’d be rather rigorous, but I didn’t understand aided by the IMDb thinkers. Okay, wait, this is exactly deceiving myself upwards.

Christina:

Do you want a few more from myself?

Drew:

Truck through a fence. I’m sure its something that I am simply not… Yeah, keep working.

Christina:

Mention of a school mortgage. They are very nuts.

Drew:

Wait, maybe you’ve viewed this film?

Christina:

I’ve come across this flick.

Drew:

Can it be crazy that I’m not setting it up?

Christina:

It’s only a little crazy. I am able to give you annually, if you’d like a-year.

Drew:

Any time you provide me a-year, We’ll seriously get it.

Christina:

Okay. 2016 is your season.

Drew:

2016. Okay, tell me what it is.

Christina:

It will be the movie,

Certain Women,

2016.

Drew:

Oh! Yeah.

Christina:

I must say I thought vehicle accidents through a wall would allow you to get, but In addition merely love these folks just pulling out nouns and simply getting like, „male.” Is that what you believe?

Drew:

Yeah.

Christina:

Okay.

Drew:

That’s a fantastic flick. I have to observe that once again.

Christina:

Truly. It really is a great flick.

Drew:

Yeah, it is a very fantastic motion picture.

Christina:

All right, the subsequent film. Kissing while having sex.

Drew:

The greatest style of both, perhaps, somehow.

Christina:

Attraction, dude farm.

Drew:

Can it be

Desert Hearts?

Christina:

Yeah. And so I was actually like, „Okay, you have got getting that afterwards one.” One other one I found myself likely to supply had been — „nipples” had been the truly plainly presented. And I also ended up being like, „Sure, this is certainly section of that film.”

Drew:

God,

Desert Hearts.

You know how there’s all these annoying men and women on the market attempting to end up being Shane. Sorry, i am talking about, in case you are trying to be Shane, I accept you. But me, my frustrating thing is the fact that I’m attempting to end up being Cay. Cay in this movie is like definitely who I think of as kind of lesbian that I want to end up being.

Christina:

Yeah, that’s true, can verify. Okay, are we prepared in regards to our next one?

Drew:

Yeah.

Christina:

12 Months—

Drew:

Hold off, no, I have one more thing to express about

Desert Hearts.

Christina:

Certain.

Drew:

Following the finally time I re-watched it across the summer, it kind of delivered me into hook spiral, and that I texted this earlier semi-closeted one who I got kind of started tentatively planning to big date or go out whatever, and who’d vanished for per month, and I had abadndoned because I do not ask people to date me personally. But i simply was similar, „Okay.” I saw

Desert Hearts

and I had been want, „I guess possibly occasionally individuals have their unique internalized whatever.” And that I texted the girl and that I said, „When we never ever satisfy, i do believe you’re going to be sorry.” And we also performed meet, with the intention that’s just what

Desert Hearts

can perform to you.

Christina:

Wow, that is a truly effective recommendation.

Drew:

We most likely should never have met. We probably requires merely allow it to end up being. But anyways, progressing, subsequent flick.

Christina:

Our very own subsequent film, metaphysics, world during orifice credits — exactly what meaning, it really is for you to decide — high school soccer, Chicago, Illinois.

Drew:

Oh,

Princess Cyd.

Christina:

There you decide to go.

Drew:

That is an excellent film. I prefer that I keep getting amazed by this record that I got a really strong hand in positioning. It isn’t my standing, but used to do have a huge state from inside the ranking and I like it.

Christina:

Yeah. I just wish to be obvious for you and our very own listeners — again, I selected through the top 50, therefore these are generally good people. Associated with good people, these are typically good types. I Understand Drewshould continually say that is the movie after each and every one, but—

Drew:

They may be good flicks, you guys should see all of them.

Christina:

Fine. Quick dress with pumps.

Drew:

Like it.

Christina:

Cock blocked, mini top with boots.

Drew:

After all, would it be

Blockers?

Christina:

It is far from. That might be also effortless, In my opinion, for

Blockers.

Drew:

I Do Not remember any miniskirts, but—

Christina:

Feminine rear nudity.

Drew:

Okay. Wait one minute. Okay, what the second. Okay, cock blocked, mini top, female rear nudity.

Christina:

Mm-hmm (affirmative). Split dance.

Drew:

Is-it

Certain?

Christina:

It isn’t really.

Drew:

No, i’d love a break moving world.

Christina:

Everyone loves some slack dancing scene in

Certain.

Drew:

Some slack moving world.

Christina:

I will offer you: English woman overseas.

Drew:

English woman overseas? This can be another one where I believe I surely should get it.

Christina:

I’ll need supply a pretty evident any at some point, to make certain that’s going to help.

Drew:

Okay, offer me personally an evident one.

Christina:

Undercover representative.

Drew:

Can it be

D.E.B.S?

Christina:

It is far from

D.E.B.S.

It really is next to

D.E.B.S.,

style of film smart. Listed here is a different one, intrigue.

Drew:

Okay, wait, there is not that many genre movies.

Christina:

You can findn’t, that’s true.

Drew:

Undercover agent. Well, maybe they may be by using the phase, is it

The Handmaiden?

Christina:

It’s not.

Drew:

Okay, i did not think so. Undercover agent.

Christina:

Do you want your 12 months?

Drew:

I Imagined that… Positive.

Christina:

Your own year is actually 2017.

Drew:

Undercover broker.

Christina:

I’m so sorry. You will feel very stupid while I state the concept of your one.

Drew:

Oh no.

Christina:

I’m actually sorry about this, but that is type of just the way the cookie crumbles.

Drew:

Oh, it is

Carol.

Christina:

No, it is not

Carol.

Drew:

No, it states 2015.

Christina:

Yes, I’m Sure that. It isn’t really

Carol.

Drew:

But there’s an undercover — the guy, that is where I was thinking. Okay, what exactly is it? How come it generate me personally feel dumb?

Christina:

Its

Atomic Blonde,

you dummy.

Drew:

Oh, that’s into the leading 50?

Christina:

It is. I understand.

Drew:

Oh, okay.

Christina:

Fine. We’ve got four more, you ready?

Drew:

I don’t believe that foolish because that one I… i am talking about, i believe

Atomic Blonde

is enjoyable, but I don’t consider it’s fantastic. That would not be inside my personal top 50. I do desire society to find out that i understand that

Carol

arrived on the scene in 2015. My mind damage. I just wish the world to find out that. Anyways, carry on.

Christina:

Society today understands that, the record has-been shown. All righty: restaurant, feeling of scent, novelist, mention of a hamburger, regard to Larry King, centered on memoir, alcoholic, theft, girl wears glasses, living by yourself, damaging proof.

Drew:

The mention of Larry King is really—

Christina:

Its a really odd one.

Drew:

Mention of the Larry King, ruining evidence.

Christina:

Cat.

Drew:

Oh, can it be

Are You Able To Ever Before Forgive Myself?

Christina:

It is.

Drew:

I had to develop to get my self. I was really in a slump there.

Christina:

You nailed it. I believe you’ve got here, I think you positively had gotten here. All right, three more, all of our leading three. I do believe these ones will likely be simple for you because I’m sure you.

Drew:

Great, ok, really…

Christina:

I know, but i am claiming, do you want?

Drew:

Okay, yeah.

Christina:

Psychological state, drug overdose.

Drew:

Is it

Foxfire?

Christina:

No. Photographer.

Drew:

Oh,

Larger.

Christina:

There we go. Tattoo, girl gang.

Drew:

So is this

Foxfire?

Christina:

Yeah.

Drew:

Oh, i understand

Foxfire.

Christina:

I found myself like, „Oh, she is going to just hold guessing

Foxfire

until I just offer the woman

Foxfire.”

Drew:

The key is that I like

Foxfire

and I also keep wanting to think about

Foxfire.

Christina:

I mean, whomst among us?

Drew:

Angelina Jolie, gosh.

Christina:

All right. This Package, one of these is actually—

Drew:

This is basically the last one?

Christina:

Here is the last one. This is certainly our final any. Church, assertion, household interactions.

Drew:

Would it be

Miseducation of Cameron Article?

Christina:

It isn’t.

Drew:

Could it possibly be

But I’m a Cheerleader?

Christina:

It is, yes.

Drew:

Yes. Comedic

Miseducation of Cameron Article.

Christina:

Jokes on jokes. So as that ended up being the overall game i am contacting, how good really does Drew understand Lesbian films???

Drew:

I enjoy how great the audience is creating names for the games.

Christina:

Yeah, it’s actually mortifying that we actually had written that within the concept of a Google Doc, that was we thinking? It doesn’t actually look really good in my Google Docs.

Drew:

I got a lot of fun and that I’m truly grateful that I got to inform all the audience about most of the motion pictures that they should see. And now we’ll put the listing inside the tv show records.

Christina:

Absolutely.

Drew:

I would personally claim that record is currently at a location in which i believe might get some thing out of viewing all 200 films. The first form of record, there seemed to be some material on the website that I found myself much less pleased about. There 's still items that i believe that I don’t personally but In my opinion that in general, absolutely a specific quality assurance after this most recent up-date that personally i think happy with and I think they are all well worth watching.

Christina: